
Is anyone aware who is responsible for this situation??
Earlier we used to do poojas from amavasya tharpanam to vrathams with vadhiyar. Now in many houses we have replaced this custom with CDs and viradha Pooja books.
Yes. Many of us spend so much money giving thamboolam just to prove our status. Without giving bramana dhanam vratam is not completed.
Dharmam
We have to take a vow that we should not bargain with vaideegas
Dharmam
Giving Respect to Vaidheegas, doing Pujas and Homams at home with Vadyar and as many vaidheegas as possible, Dhadyaradhanam and offering them good dakshina and vastram wholeheartedly are utmost duties of everyone. Even if we do it by ourselves at home for some reason, dakshina should be offered to some vaidheega later. .
Dharmam
Even when we go to temples rather than putting money in hundi (which normally goes to goverment and then being used by politicians for various purposes), we have to offer more money to Archakas who is doing kainkaryam as per varnasrama dharma
Dharmam
Brahmana dharmam is doing vaidheegam only. When Brahmanas by birth do so many things (doing other varnasrama dharma works) other than vaidheegam, then at least, they have to take care of Vaidheegas well as per other varnasrama dharmam
Dharmam
கலியுகத்தில் குறைந்தபட்சம் வாய்மையே பேசுதல் என்ற ஒரு தர்மத்தையாவது அனைவரும் விடாமல் கடைப்பிடித்தாலே பாதி குழப்பங்கள் குறையும். With "so what attitude" - வீண்புகழ்ச்சி, to escape from something, to hide something and காரண காரியமே இல்லாமல் பொய் பேசுதல் கூட ரொம்பவும் சகஜமாகி விட்டது.
When there is no contradiction between our thinking, speaking and doing, we can experience a kind of peace within us.
Know Our Acharyas

All Aacharyas are respectable Gurus. We have to understand our own Guru parampara prabhavam. They are our Well-wishers. Bhaghavan made Guru parampara, a chain from Him to Acharyas upto our period to give proper guidance to people during any generation, any time. Whatever upadesams they tell are words of Bhagavan only. They won't tell anything without Pramanam (Proof) from Sruthi, Smriti and Puranas.
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First and foremost thing every one in our Sanatana dharma should do is Respect Guru Parampara as per their Sampradhayam and make their Children also trust them first. We have to assure them whatever doubts they have, they can get it clarified by our Guru.
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Paramparya Acharyas, who completed proper learning about Vedhas, Shastras, Puranas, Nyaya Meemamsa Dharka Shastra and much more, they know very well, as Parents.... how to give knowledge to their Kids... (Sishyaas) When to give ... In what order depending upon the maturity level of sishyas. They will gradually inculcate knowledge in us with a strong foundation.
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In Gita when Arjuna wants to do Gnana yogam instead of Karma yogam to avoid battle, Krishna said "You may be capable of doing Gnana yoga. But, people who follow you may not be able to do that and will fail losing both yogas. So, being a leader, you are responsible to show a way to people... only what they can follow". Following Krishna's words, Our Acharyas, though they are capable of doing Gnana yoga, they chose Karma yoga to show us, the followers the right path which is suitable for us. Actually, they do Bhakti yoga which is greater than karma yoga. But, they do Karmanushtanams to show us.
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Following the guru parampara and faith in the super power from childhood is a must. நம்பளோட கலாசாரத்தில் சின்ன வயசில் ருசி ஏற்பட்டால் குழந்தைகள் பிற கலாசாரத்திற்கு தாவ வாய்ப்பு குறைவு அக ்கார அடிசல் சாப்பிட்ட வாய் தெருக்கடை அல்வாவை தீண்ட ஆசைப்படாது.
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குருவின் அருள் பெற்றவர்களுக்கு
வாழ்வு வேகமாக நிகழும்.. பல ஜென்மங்களில் நிகழ வேண்டிய செயல்கள் அதிக வேகமாக இந்த பிறவியிலேயே நிகழும் இன்பமும் துன்பமும்.
அதனால் தான் ஆன்மீக பாதையிலிருக்கும் சாதகர்கள் .. மற்றவர்களை விட அதிக நோய்கள், இன்ன பிற கடினமான வாழ்வியல் பிரச்சனைகளை சந்திக்கிறார்கள். ..,
ஆனால் குருவின் அருள் மடியில் இருப்பதால் இதையெல்லாம் ஒரு சமநிலையோடு, நோய்தீர்க்கும் அறுவை சிகிச்சையென்னும் புரிதலோடு, எளிதாக கடந்து விடலாம்.
நமக்கு தேவை குருபக்தியும், பொறுமையும் மட்டுமே.
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