
Is anyone aware who is responsible for this situation??
Earlier we used to do poojas from amavasya tharpanam to vrathams with vadhiyar. Now in many houses we have replaced this custom with CDs and viradha Pooja books.
Yes. Many of us spend so much money giving thamboolam just to prove our status. Without giving bramana dhanam vratam is not completed.
Dharmam
We have to take a vow that we should not bargain with vaideegas
Dharmam
Giving Respect to Vaidheegas, doing Pujas and Homams at home with Vadyar and as many vaidheegas as possible, Dhadyaradhanam and offering them good dakshina and vastram wholeheartedly are utmost duties of everyone. Even if we do it by ourselves at home for some reason, dakshina should be offered to some vaidheega later. .
Dharmam
Even when we go to temples rather than putting money in hundi (which normally goes to goverment and then being used by politicians for various purposes), we have to offer more money to Archakas who is doing kainkaryam as per varnasrama dharma
Dharmam
Brahmana dharmam is doing vaidheegam only. When Brahmanas by birth do so many things (doing other varnasrama dharma works) other than vaidheegam, then at least, they have to take care of Vaidheegas well as per other varnasrama dharmam
Dharmam
கலியுகத்தில் குறைந்தபட்சம் வாய்மையே பேசுதல் என்ற ஒரு தர்மத்தையாவது அனைவரும் விடாமல் கடைப்பிடித்தாலே பாதி குழப்பங்கள் குறையும். With "so what attitude" - வீண்புகழ்ச்சி, to escape from something, to hide something and காரண காரியமே இல்லாமல் பொய் பேசுதல் கூட ரொம்பவும் சகஜமாகி விட்டது.
When there is no contradiction between our thinking, speaking and doing, we can experience a kind of peace within us.







For Girls and Married ladies during Monthly Cycles:
During monthly cycles there is a hormone called estrogen will be secreted in huge level in our body. This hormone suppresses the immune system making them prone for viral and bacterial infections. That's why they make the mensurating women sit separately in a room don't allow them to roam around in the crowd.
Whatever was told was for our safety thing. Following it or making fun of it depends on individuals. If we follow we will live healthy life.
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The monthly cycles are days meant to give rest and relaxation to the body, muscles, nerves and mind.
It needs proper understanding of the hygiene of the individual, and of the psycological , emotional stress of the mind due to harmonal changes during that period of time.
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The monthly cycles generate excess heat in the system of females, which are required to pump down the menstrual blood totally out of the system and it enables timely cleaning of the body.
The heat energy generated at that time is several times more than normal days and this heat causes a lot of dehydration and hunger along with emotional turbulence due to harmonal changes
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There is an energy level imbalance or shift created in between the body and the outer environment.
In order to avoid the wastage or release of the heat energy from the body of the individual inside other things or people, it is considered essential that the particular individual has a separate place to rest, eat and relax herself.
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The Food cooked by the woman during her period times cannot be partaken by others and by herself also,since diffusion takes place., because the heat in her body is highly concentrated and it diffuses inside the pathaartham or the food that is made.
Critics and feminists make question this just to say that they are upholding women's right.
There is a huge difference between "Rights" and "stress free work"
Cooking during the monthly cycles stresses the person to such an extent that she will feel tired even to eat after so much work.
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In these days, their energy has to be preserved and they need to be served .
So, actions like cooking, touching the clothes or folding them, going near Pooja room is to be avoided.
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During the monthly cycles, as told before, her body will not be in terms with the outer environmental energies and spiritual plane is auch higher plane where diffusion occurs.The spiritual energies will automatically try to get diffused inside us,when we enter a spiritual plane or temple,but during periods, the system behaves like like poles, they repel spiritual energies.unconsciously this will be done.
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Taking satwik foods, fruits, uncooked items, sprouts, milk, buttermilk, ground nuts, only during the days, relaxing , maintaining calmness and serene attitude are good.
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