Is anyone aware who is responsible for this situation??
Earlier we used to do poojas from amavasya tharpanam to vrathams with vadhiyar. Now in many houses we have replaced this custom with CDs and viradha Pooja books.
Yes. Many of us spend so much money giving thamboolam just to prove our status. Without giving bramana dhanam vratam is not completed.
Dharmam
We have to take a vow that we should not bargain with vaideegas
Dharmam
Giving Respect to Vaidheegas, doing Pujas and Homams at home with Vadyar and as many vaidheegas as possible, Dhadyaradhanam and offering them good dakshina and vastram wholeheartedly are utmost duties of everyone. Even if we do it by ourselves at home for some reason, dakshina should be offered to some vaidheega later. .
Dharmam
Even when we go to temples rather than putting money in hundi (which normally goes to goverment and then being used by politicians for various purposes), we have to offer more money to Archakas who is doing kainkaryam as per varnasrama dharma
Dharmam
Brahmana dharmam is doing vaidheegam only. When Brahmanas by birth do so many things (doing other varnasrama dharma works) other than vaidheegam, then at least, they have to take care of Vaidheegas well as per other varnasrama dharmam
Dharmam
கலியுகத்தில் குறைந்தபட்சம் வாய்மையே பேசுதல் என்ற ஒரு தர்மத்தையாவது அனைவரும் விடாமல் கடைப்பிடித்தாலே பாதி குழப்பங்கள் குறையும். With "so what attitude" - வீண்புகழ்ச்சி, to escape from something, to hide something and காரண காரியமே இல்லாமல் பொய் பேசுதல் கூட ரொம்பவும் சகஜமாகி விட்டது.
When there is no contradiction between our thinking, speaking and doing, we can experience a kind of peace within us.
South Indian ladies decorate their hair not only with jasmine flowers but they decorate their hair with many other flowers like rose, chrysanthemum, kanakambaram, champagne n whatever flower that is fragrant n beautiful n has a moderate size to b adorned over hair. Adorning flowers in hair is an age old tradition followed by the hindus.
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Wearing flowers on the hair is an auspicious symbol in our hindu traditions. A plant grows in the dirty soil n it converts into its food whatever remains available in it heedless of the filth present in the soil. Flowers grow on it with attractive colours andemitting fragrance. They mean to say that how much ever tribulations we suffer and whatsoever filthy atmosphere we live in we must make the best out of it and like flowers we must emit the fragrance from our hearts having a smiling face. For this reason gods loved the flowers because they too are like flowers.
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Gradually it became our custom for the Hindu women to wear flowers on any auspicious day. Every woman must adorn flowers on her hair because it symbolizes longevity of her married life. Not for fun and not for beauty that she should decorate her hair with flowers, but for the reason that she must b like a flower in her attitude towards her family.
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Jasmine's fragrance reduces nervousness and also keeps the brain in calmness.
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